Testimonials

“Relationships expert Sue Ostler is a professional flirt. She's so good at it that, every time we speak on the telephone, I want to ask her on a date, and I'm happily married – honest! Ostler teaches women to flirt successfully, but not in a sleazy, sexual way. She teaches women to love themselves by improving their self-confidence and self-image, which is the true secret to successful flirting. Every guy loves a confident woman and, perhaps more importantly, every guy's mates love a confident woman.”
- Chris Sheedy - Journalist

“I have read books that get your thoughts into gear. I really recommend "Get over it" by Sue Ostler. It made me realise I wasn't going crazy - everyone goes through the same situations.”
- Rosie Beaton – Radio & TV Announcer, Triple J, ABC

“Sue Ostler’s warm and wonderfully honest approach will definitely help you survive in the love jungle.”
 - Jessica Adams, author of Single White E-mail and team editor, Girls’ Night In

Hi Sue,

As I don't read anything properly in advance, rather I just impulsively dive in there, I was totally amazed that you gave that personalised analysis at the end of the course, so that is a real bonus.  The personalised profile really helps boost a person’s confidence because I think some confidence is lacking in my personal life, and you just sort of gave me the green light. 

You help create a fun atmosphere and at the same time make very sharp observations.  Participation is very interactive allowing everyone to have a say which makes it easier when you want to speak up – it doesn’t seem so scary.

Reading about something and actually having the author as a coach and mentor makes a world of difference.  This course heightens your observations and I can already see changes. You are just so passionate baby what else can I say.

You have been absolutely wonderful and I hope that we can all sign up for the second course. I don't mind which evening I will go along with the majority. 

 - Samantha from Shoreditch  xx

Hi Sue,

Thanks for the course, it has been really encouraging and thanks also for the positive comments..

I have worked very hard on myself since I split from my ex….was such a terrible experience I had to…the only problem is that I feel that I am a 43 year old 25 year old!!…perhaps not a problem…but I suspect it is why I seem to find it much easier to meet young men that are interested in me…but not men closer to me in age…but this course and meeting the other girls I think will solve this problem….feel very fortunate to have met you and the ‘flirt squad’.

Have decided from Jan to rev up my life and that courage and self respect are my mottos for 2010…am not afraid of making mistakes…and need to crack my lack of confidence.

See you on Saturday…..looking forward to it…am going to try with not drinking much - just a couple to relax……as want to practice real skills, even if it feels more uncomfortable.

 - Alannis  43

Sue,

I am SO ready for this Sue!

Thank you for your kind offer of help - am up for any help I can get...

I think you’re such an amazing person; loaded with energy and sharing your knowledge to help others.  Your passion for your field of expertise shines through and you have jumped on a fantastic opportunity to make your passion your career with an ever increasing audience of single 30's...

Seriously, you have changed my life.  I now realise I can flirt for fun, and have fun with it... its opened up a whole new world for me.

Having you enter my life and the other girls has made me realise what I have been missing out on - I have decided my goal for next year (this year was dating) is going to spend more time just being girly... very exciting prospect indeed :0)

I did what you suggested and wrote a list of all those I have dated this year and what qualities I found attractive/not attractive... there were some themes.  I have cleared the diary of 'coffees' and have followed up with two possible’s who I really enjoyed being in the company of... like you say, just to give them a chance, on a deeper level.

 Nothing lost anyway, as I said this has opened a whole new world for me.  I've waved goodbye to the baggage and am enjoying getting out there and having fun... I stride down the street, head up, more confident and happy in my own skin.  I almost hope that I don't meet someone too soon!

I am your strongest advocate.  I will write up my review as soon as I have finished the book and will be taking it away on holiday with me so I can read it on the beach in Thailand (is there a better place to flirt and feel sassy than on holiday?!?!?).  Very much looking forward to Saturday evening and the follow-up sessions in the New Year.

My career has taught me to exert confidence and mix and mingle and the art of small-talk but I just don't seem to get it to go beyond that... like I said last night....  I am not a player but have been played around emotionally with by a 'jerk' (feels so good to be able to say that!) for the past four years - all confidence denting (I can empathise with you and the counselling stuff).  You hit the spot with saying last week of 'he stepped aside'...  Anyway, enough of poor me!  That stuff is now nicely packaged in a box at the back of the top shelf and I am refreshed and renewed and on a mission :0)

You are so good for the soul! Thank you so much for such a kind gesture, it brings a tear to my eye!

After 32 years of abject sexual failure and humiliation piled upon humiliation, Sue Ostler’s workshop gave me hope that I might be able to meet someone before I die.
 - Nigel Bowen, Ralph Magazine

Sue,
Thank YOU! I had an absolute blast; you will definitely be seeing me at the next one.
Regards,
Sharni

Hi Sue,
Thank you! I had a great time and as I said I think it’s a great, positive thing you're doing there. So different from all those crappy 'how to bag a man' things. It was really empowering for those girls and I think they all took away something good from it, even if it was just to have connected with other women - which actually I thought was a great part of it all!
 - Amy Cooper, Sun Herald

I truly thought it was a fabulous evening! There wasn’t too much information to process, and the atmosphere really allowed women to let go! And they did!
 - Emma Bradshaw. Next Media

Sue,
Great tips, happy hip feeling, things I knew that I didn’t or hadn’t quite sunk in before, you only attract happy people when you are happy within yourself. Fabulous program filled with fun and funky things. PS I’m actually putting your tips into action and getting off the lounge.
 - Shayne

I thought the approach was really good. Sue pointing out that it’s your viewpoint that you need to change i.e. date and learn. At 7.10pm I can say I've been enjoying myself thoroughly.
 - Mike

Sue,
Had a fantastic time, thoroughly enjoyed the evening.
 - Chris

Thanks Sue,
Lots of sun and a great concept! Have more please!
  - Naomi

Thanks Sue,
Note to self- do not brag about assets. Had a good time.
 - Rod

Sue,
Thanks very much for a great day, enjoyed it heaps.
 - Di

Had a great time Sue, you are very inspiring and fun.
 - Matt

Hey Sue!
Thanks for today- was interesting and learnt heaps. Will have to get your books now.
 - Carlie

I had such a great day! I came with the feeling I was going to a job interview (just a tad nervous) - but it was so much fun, I feel like I can approach dating in a much more fun and exciting way. Thanks Sue, you’re fantastic.
  - Mel

Cool, fun day very informative.
 - Matt

Thanks Sue, More fun than I expected.
 - Lyle

The people I've met were great. Theory and organization very interactive. Sue is great and very passionate, with a few changes this would be excellent. Fast dating – good, drinks - good.
 - Peter

Really great. A good way to spend Valentines Day. I’ve learnt a lot of useful skills. Thanks for a marvelous evening.
  - Paul

Sue,
Sue, your seminar today was very insightful. I am definitely not going away empty handed. Thank YOU! I had a ball.
 - Susan

I’ll be back next time – I needed that confidence boost and Sue’s workshop and night out hit the nail right on the head
 - Bec, Cosmopolitan

Thank-you for a super seminar with a twist – the Vodka & Chocolate therapy was just what the doctor ordered. This was my second one and I’ll see you at the next one!
 - Shayne