Sue's Books
Flirt Diva: For single women who want
to be fabulous
RRP £11.99 (or as Amazon Kindle e-book RRP £8.99)
On Valentine s Day in 2002, the UKs Queen of Love and Flirt Diva extraordinaire, Sue Ostler was single and over it!
Determined to turn her life around, she created the 6-Week-Get-Loved-Up Plan, and leaping out from behind her Flirt Diva alter ego, her transformation from earthling to love goddess began. Today, seven years later, Sue is more loved up than she has ever been. She has learnt from her mistakes and come to terms with it all, from binge-flirting to break-ups and man malfunctions, now she wants to share the love and spread the word.
So she has gone out there and put together the Get Loved Up plan.
Flirt Diva presents the revolutionary 6-Step Plan that will bring immediate results, and put women on the fast track to finding romance. Funny, smart and inspirational, Flirt Diva is a star-spangled brand of love therapy which shows sassy women worldwide how to flirt like a superstar. It s the first book ever to get down and dirty with the first ladies of divadom from the wild women of Hollywood, and the bad girls of Britain, to all the pouting pop princesses, style icons and goddesses in between a must have for all lust-starved love junkies.
Just the tonic for lusty women who
have their eye set on the big (romantic) prize!
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Relationships
That Rock! How To Meet and Keep The Perfect Partner.
Published September 2004. On sale Now!
What do women want? The candid answers that nobody else will give about
sex, lust and bad boy-itis. Sue completely relates to what it’s
like meeting the Wrong Guy, the Perfect Guy or the Misunderstood Guy and
having absolutely no clue how to handle them, or the relationship.
Relationships that Rock! will save you years of pain and trauma by delivering
the secret short cuts to help you avoid relationship hell and go straight
to relationship heaven. Full of interviews with fabulous Love Savvy women,
it offers a refreshingly intelligent alternative to the outrageously unrealistic
clichéd messages women see and hear everyday from books, magazines,
television, advertisements, workmates and relatives. It’s the thinking
women’s guide to dating smarter, playing harder and holding your
own in the relationship stakes. It’s for you if:
• You find yourself gazing into the abyss of your romantic future
• You’re looking for some shagging privileges
• Your crappy life has come crashing down all around you
• The romantic radar has malfunctioned yet again
• You’re tired of playing romantic roulette
• You’re ready for some adventures in Romantic City
It will show you how to keep a cool head while dramatically increasing
your chances of meeting a like minded Soul Mate without relinquishing
your pride, self respect and dignity. There are no antiquated 'time tested
secrets for capturing the heart of Mr Right' - you're too smart for that
crap. With chapters like, 'you won't get laid if you won't lay down and
get walked over', it will make you laugh and make you cry. Sue Ostler
isn't one of those 'relationship experts' who tells others how to snare
their man with a flick of the head and a flutter of an eyelash and then
leaves them high and dry when it comes to relationship maintenance. She
serves up a delicious slick on the thinking girl's survival tips and practical
advice on all things romantic.
Sue wrote about being single long before it had come out of the closet. Get On With It! How To Be Sassy, Successful and Single(A & U 2002) is on sale in all good book stores and has been re-released this September due to demand and is onsale now.
Following hard on the heels of the heartbreak manual, Get Over It! - A love junkies guide, Get On With It! is THE definitive single girl's manual. A funky user-friendly guide designed to help launch your fantasy life. A true celebration of the Bridge Jones generation. Packed with gazillions of tips, stories, advice, suggestions, examples, quotes and information, Get On With It! is a springboard for attracting sexy new relationships and attacking life with the same passion usually reserved for R.O.M.A.N.C.E. It covers the full spectrum from financial independence, to why we're staying single longer, friends, health, home, careers, dating and the nasty truths about casual sex!
• Challenge the myth that you have to be in love to be happy
• Stop thinking about being single as 'in-between relationships' time
• Have the time of your life
Extracts
"As single women we live by our wits. We're givers, not takers. Winners, not losers. We're setting trends, not following them. And we're devastatingly attractive precisely because we're not married! There's more to us than somebody's idea of a wife, fiancée or girlfriend.......We are, repeat after me, who WE want to be, NOT who someone else wants us to be. And to try and shorten the natural life span of this phase is berserk. Bottom line: it's possibly the only time we'll get in our entire lives to figure out who we are. "
" Sassy, single women are revolutionaries in this field. We're playing to win, and that means on our own terms. Sooner or later us late bloomers will warm up and take off. Love blossoms at all different ages, in all different circumstances for all different people. All girls have choices; marriage is no longer the defining achievement. There's a New Girl Order and it demands a loosely crafted plan. You're smart as hell, that's how you get R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Armed properly you can be the power-babe on the block, ready to embrace the heady concept of life and all it delivers. And get ready to party - we've got stuff to celebrate. "
Get Over It! A Love Junkies Guide (1998 A & U)
After an epic relationship spanning four years, Sue got a taste of love gone wrong. She was dumped big-time! Get Over It! immortalizes not only her story but recounts dozens of other tales of heartbreak and the devastation that comes with love shock. Packed with spirited insights, sympathetic and practical advice, shockwaves, chuckles and tips, it is the definitive break-up girls’ survival kit.
It’s for you if you’re:
• A love junkie on a one way trip to hell and back
• In the midst of a hardcore identity crisis
• Heading for singledom and terrified
• In a destructive relationship and wanting to get out
• Wanting to reconcile a broken relationship
• Lured by the idea of having sex with your ex
• Sick of licking your love wounds
• Looking for a new direction and a lust for life
• Feeling like you can’t start living until you’re in a relationship